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Tuesday, June 14, 2011

In Loving Memory of Grandma Dot



As per my brother's request, I am posting pictures and thoughts from my Grandma Dot's funeral today. Above is the digital copy of the program. It was a beautiful program. My favorite part was when my Dad gave a life sketch- he said that he couldn't really do a life sketch for Grandma because her life was more of a mural that each of us have added to. He went on to describe different "brush strokes" that had occurred in Grandma's life. Elder Hafen talked about Grandma's conviction to the gospel. He talked about special talks they had in the last few days of her life. His comment was that he has never known someone more ready and more excited to meet our Heavenly Father. My Grandma's life was full of service to others. It was mentioned numerous times how she was able to make everyone around her feel welcome and loved. The spirit was strong and there is no doubt that Grandma is now with Grandpa Garn.


The Girls before the funeral- looking very grown up...




I know she looks pale and her hair isn't all done up- but Grandma requested that she look natural and didn't want it any differently.






The roses off to the side were placed by all of the grandchildren present. I think it was a very fitting way to say good-bye. In all the day went well. I am so sad to know that Grandma Dot is gone- I will miss her so very much- but I know that she's happy where she is and she deserves to be there with Grandpa Garn.

Life is so short and we never know at what point we will no longer be here on Earth. Today has further emphasized to me that we need to live each day to the fullest and we need to love those around us just a little bit more and hug them just a little bit longer.

With that in mind, we are off to play with our kids- just like Grandma would want us to....

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Our life in April

The month has passed by so quickly! It seems that April always sneaks up on me and suddenly it's gone. I figured I had better update the blog for the month before it's completely over. Today is actually Ryan and my 13th Anniversary. It amazes me how fast the time goes. I feel so very blessed to have married my best friend and he continues to still be my very best friend. We knew that our schedule (more particularly my schedule) would be crazy this month. So we took the first weekend of the month and ran off to Vegas. It was so relaxing and very warm! Then we came home to a snow storm... blah!

I was also blessed to get a promotion at work. I was promoted to a charge nurse position. I pretty much run the nursing unit and decide on which patients to admit when it's my day to charge. I'm not really sure that I wanted it but I agreed to the extra responsibility. If nothing else, I keep telling myself that it looks really good on my resume. And the bit of extra money will at least pay for my gas.

Kelsi turns 12 in 6 days! When did she get so old?!? She is pretty much as tall as me now and is relishing the fact that her next growth spurt will make her taller than me. She will be starting the youth program at church and is very excited to be going to girl's camp this summer. I'm not sure how she will do being away from us for an entire week. I do remember how much I grew up and learned confidence in myself when I went at her age. I look forward to her having these experiences and watching her continue to grow into an amazing young woman.

And of coarse, we celebrated Easter today. I was brave this year and let the girls make their own Easter dresses. They actually turned out pretty cute and the girls were so excited that they had made them- they could hardly wait to go to church today. Taylor has been very excited for the Easter bunny to come. He seems to think that he's just like Santa and just can't fathom why the Easter bunny doesn't come down the chimney. After all, that would just make sense, right?!? I had to laugh at how disappointed he was that the Easter bunny that came to his school didn't talk. He said to me, "Mom, I don't know why he didn't talk. On Hop (the movie) he talked! And I just couldn't get him to say ANYTHING to me!" I chuckled and felt really bad for that poor Easter bunny that Taylor was trying to get to talk!!!

Well that sums up our month- here's a few pics to go along with the words...
Ryan with the Treasure Island Chopper in Vegas


Kelsi sewing her Easter dress


Me with the albino alligator in Vegas at Shark Reef

Jessica sewing her Easter dress

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Taylorisms

I just adore my 4 year old and they many, many , many funny things he comes up with. So here are a few to make you smile....


Tay woke up around 9:30 the other night- this was Ryan's conversation with him-
Taylor (crying): There's a monster under my bed

Ryan: Hey buddy there isn't any room for a monster under your bed because there are drawers under there. He wouldn't fit

Taylor (still crying): But he's a really little monster!


After Ryan picked him up from preschool:
"Dad can we go to Cowafornia? I really want to pet a cow!"


After hearing that Ryan and I were going to Las Vegas for the weekend
"Why are you going to Lost Vegas? You'll get lost"


Random conversation in the car with me
Taylor: Mom is Jesus in the clouds?
Me: No buddy he's in heaven

Taylor: Where's heaven?

Me: In space somewhere.

Taylor: So when someone dies they can go to heaven and see him?

Me: Yes

Taylor: What if I just pretend to be dead? Then can I see him?


Taylor: Mom am I your favoritist today?
Me: You're always my favoritist.

Taylor: But do you love me mostest today?

Me: I love you mostest everyday.

Taylor: Nooo! The other day you loved Jessica the mostest- she told me so!



"When I grow up and I'm 10, I'm going to be superman!"

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Life Changes...

Isn't the stress of life just great sometimes?!? The last few months have been very stressful for our family. So here's a recap and how things have turned out--

In December I had to have an ablation. This is along the same lines of a hysterectomy but less invasive. Long story short- the doctor was nice enough to give me an infection which led to the ablation and some major antibiotics! The way the doctor phased it was that I had won the lottery on the infection because only 0.5% of patients get one with what I had done. Why is it that I can't win something that involves an amazing award??? Nope, not me... I win the prize that gives me surgery, of which we had to pay $1000, and some nasty antibiotics that I will NEVER take again!

All through this time, I was having some major issues at work due to budget cuts that hit our facility. I started looking and interviewing for jobs in July with no luck. After being told that 2 of the 5 days I worked I would have to take on a patient load of 48 to 1- Ryan and I decided to take a leap of faith and quit my full-time, benefited job. For those that are not in the medical field... a patient ratio of 48 to 1 means that I would be the ONLY nurse to 48 patients. Not only is this not safe (for obvious reasons) it's extremely difficult because if anything happens, I am ultimately responsible due to the fact that I am the RN in the area. Jan. 7 was my last day. I felt a sense of relief after quitting but the stress of having no insurance and no full-time job was a bit daunting. Thankfully, I was able to pick up hours at a care center that I worked at before.

After, literally, months of interviewing, I was finally offered and accepted a job at LDS hospital in SLC. (I think Utah is about one of the only areas that doesn't have a nursing shortage!) It was such a stress relief yesterday to go fill out all of the employment paperwork! I am very excited to be back working for IHC. I have always felt that I could spend my entire career working for them. Mainly because the company is so large, has an amazing reputation, and has tons of different opportunities and areas of practice to keep me from ever getting "stuck" in an area.

I will be working on the psychiatric/behavioral health unit. This is a lock down unit that medically treats patients with injury etc. directly related to mental health issues. I will admit that this is not my "ideal" area of work-- It's the same type of nursing that I was doing before. However, I know that I am good at it and that I have the patience to deal with these very difficult patients. Not to mention the fact that it gets me into IHC. We will see where my career goes from here.

I have truly felt a sense of calm as Ryan and I discussed and then accepted this position. We feel like we took a true leap of faith by quitting my last job. I have a sense that for some reason Heavenly Father wants me to work this new job. There were too many "coincidences" that lead to me interviewing and then taking this job. I don't know why and may never know the reasons but I feel like this is where I am supposed to be for now.

I am hoping that life calms down for at least a little while. I think our next endeavor will be the decision to buy a house again. I'm still not sure if I am ready for that yet-- there are pro's and con's to each side... and with me now working in downtown SLC, it changes the direction that our thoughts were headed as far as areas etc. Hopefully, we have a few months of calm before we have to make life changing choices....

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Another Year of Memories

I can distinctly remember being in elementary school and thinking that December had to be the longest month of the year. Now I think it has become the shortest. I looked at the calender this morning and realized that it is already 1/2 gone. It's fun to watch my children as they wish the time away so that Christmas can be here. Taylor has told me multiple times that "it's just taking too long!" I sit here wishing that it would slow down just a little so that we can enjoy the memories a bit longer.

This year has been full of fun family times and growth for our family. It amazes me to see that in the last 6 months all of our kids have grown 1 1/2 to 2 inches! They have also grown by leaps and bounds at school. I wish I could just pause them sometimes and enjoy where they are in life- however, they all seem to be in a big hurry to grow up.

I figured I had better do our year in review before the month is completely gone and I realize that it isn't even 2010 anymore...

Ryan: continues to work for University Parking Enforcement. He was promoted to General Manager this year and runs the day to day operation of the company. This can be stressful at times but Ryan seems to handle it all very well. He also taught the 9-10 year olds at church this year. This has been a huge challenge for him but he has kept at it and I think he has learned a bit more patience.

Stephanie: I continue to work for the state as an RN taking care of mentally disabled patients. I love the patients that I care for- they are some of the most chosen spirits. I am hoping to move into the hospital this year and get into a schedule that allows me to be home more.

Kelsi: our oldest is 11 this year. She is currently measuring in at 5'4" and will be passing me at any moment! The other day she told me that it was time to get out my "tall shoes!" Kelsi loves school and reading. She is very smart and often spends time tutoring others in her class or doing extra credit. She just finished being in the school play as one of the lead characters. She is a true "drama queen" and loves that spotlight. Kelsi is also only 4 months away from going into YW at church. She is very excited for this- I am having a hard time realizing that my baby is getting to the point of liking boys and caring about her hair and clothes. Thankfully we have unlimited texting because she could write a large book with just one month's worth of outgoing texts! It is nice to finally have one old enough to babysit for short times while I go out by myself.

Jessica: Turned 9 a few days ago. She is our little social butterfly. It amazes me how much compassion she has for others. I have watched as she befriends everyone and goes out of her way to include everyone- even if they aren't that popular. She is a fashion diva- if given her way, she would wear knee high boots with leggings and a skirt daily! We have had to regulate this a bit to keep her from ruining clothes on the playground. She is currently on her 3rd pair of boots for the school year and I lost count of how many leggings! I just adore how precocious Jessica can be! It cracks me up to see how much time she spends trying to get out of doing something. At least we know she is great at solving problems-- or at least finding a way around them!

Taylor: turned 4 this year. Where did the time go? We finally put him into a professional daycare. It costs a bit more but the rewards have been well worth it. He is able to spell his name now and can recognize basic sight words. He is in a pre-kindergarten class and will start kindergarten in the fall. He will only be 4 so he will go to kindergarten for 2 years but I feel like this will be great for him. Tay loves going to school and seeing all his friends. He has also really understood Christmas this year. He keeps telling me that he wants his birthday to be on Christmas so that he can share it with Jesus. I think this may just be a ploy to gain an extra birthday but at least he gets the true meaning of Christmas.

We were lucky enough to go to Disneyland as a family last spring. This was especially fun because we met some of our best friends there and spent the week playing. We have also spent time going on mini weekend trips to Park City and St. George. I love that the kids are old enough to just pack and go. They love the adventures and wish that we would go every weekend! We introduced the kids to baseball games and they love that pastime. Tay is really good at cheering for the home team and singing Take Me Out to the Ballgame.

It's been a great year for our family. We are enjoying this time in our life and know that these memories need to be cherished. I think within the blink of an eye, our kids will be grown. I look forward to the New Year and the memories that we will be able to make.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

And the Stockings Were Hung...

I decided to redo the kid's Christmas tree this year. I found a tall, skinny tree at Shopko (on sale) that was pre-lit with LED lights. We decided to do an Elf/Santa's workshop theme. The kids helped out and I think that it turned out pretty cute. It's a bit overloaded but I think it just adds to the tree. The elf hat makes a great topper and I made it all sparkly. It reflects the LED lights really well. Add in the stockings over the fireplace with our Christmas story books and it makes for a cozy area. The kids are thrilled with the end result and can hardly wait for Santa to make an appearance.
I love this time of year!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Thankful A to Z's

I was laying in bed last night thinking about the fact that this week is Thanksgiving and how fast time flies. I was also thinking of all the things I am thankful for. Taylor has been really focusing on letters in preschool so I decided to do a list of things I'm thankful for, Taylor style...

America and the fact that we live here
Brine that makes the turkey yummy
Christmas season is next
Date night with my hubby
Everything Disney- movies, parks, books, etc.
Family
Growing up- watching the kids as they progress
Home that keeps us warm
Ice cream, especially Cold Stone
Jessica
Kelsi
Laughter
Money to pay the bills and buy the food
Nursing as a job
Old friends that love me still and always will
Patients that love unconditionally
Quiet time
Ryan
Sleeping in every so often
Taylor
Ultimate chipolte chicken burrito at Costa Vida
Vacations
Work that pays the bills
X-rays that showed my kids have no cavities
Years that I have spent with my family, and years still to come
Zzzzzzz... when the kids are sleeping!!